Frequently Asked Questions

Dr. Marian Stansbury
"Creating Healthy Relationships is the Heart of the Matter"
Answers to some of our most frequently asked questions.

	What happens during a therapy session?
	What is relationship coachng?
	How long are the sessions?
	Is what I tell you confidential?
	How do I know if I would benefit from therapy or coaching?
	What is life coaching0? How is it different from therapy?
	Can we do coaching or therapy sessions by phone ?
	What is Imago Relationship Training?
	What is EMDR?
	Do you offer evening appointments?
	How long does therapy or coaching take?
	Do you prescribe any medication?
	Where are you located?
	Can I reach you in an emergency?
	How much does therapy or coaching cost?
	Do you accept credit cards?
	Don't see your question? Write to Dr. Stansbury.
HOME	*What happens during a therapy session?*
THE LIVING ROOM	A therapy session consists primarily of a therapeutic conversation. It appears to be normal conversation but is strategic to the issues involved. During our initial session we'll discuss what is troubling you and how I might be able to help. Follow-up sessions will be designed around the type of therapy that would be the most effective for you. If you are a couple seeking counseling, we would discuss the areas of agreement, areas of conflict and frustration, issues that need to be resolved, your vision of what you want and find ways for you to restore intimacy and tenderness to your relationship. Return to top
RELATIONSHIPS
COUNSELING
Individuals
Couples
Couples
EMDR	What is relationship coaching?
Internet and Online	Coaching gives you that extra voice of direction, that extra little support you might need to identify the problem, overcome a difficult point in a relationship, or, if you're single, to get past the obstacles that are keeping you from developing the relationship you want. Telephone sessions help us identify the roadblocks and develop a step-by-step plan to overcome them. More on relationship coaching for singles and couples.
For Men Only
Prepare Program
Families
Children
COACHING
Ways to use Coaching	*How long are the sessions?*
Are you a candidate?	Individual therapy sessions normally are scheduled for 45 minutes, plus five minutes to handle scheduling your next appointment, payment, etc. EMDR and couples counseling sessions usually are scheduled for 75 minutes.
Coaching FAQs
Relationships
Singles
Wheel of Life	Is what I tell you confidential?
FUN STUFF	Absolutely! I have a white noise generator outside the door so no one else in the office can hear what we say. Notes and records are secured and locked.. I will not discuss your case with anyone else, including members of your family, without your express permission. Return to top
FAQs
CONTACT US

	How do I know if I could benefit from therapy or coaching?
	The fact that you are reading this indicates you feel you might benefit from my help. I offer a free 15-minute initial telephone consultation during which we can make that determination. Call me and let's talk about it.


	What is life coaching?
	There are times that each of us needs a little extra support, some help achieving our goals. Life coaching provides just that. Career questions, personal challenges, overscheduling and its resulting stress, any part of your life that seems to be out of balance might be helped by having a life coach. We will work together to help you develop a plan of action toward success. In the simplest terms, therapy is for someone with a diagnosable emotional issue. Coaching is for someone who wants to go from okay to great. More on life coaching Return to top

	*Can we do therapy sessions or coaching by phone?*
	Yes. This is an excellent way for people who cannot come to my office. Telephone appointments are scheduled the same as office visits. I recommend that you do not use a cordless or cellular phone in order to protect confidentiality. I also have added telephone coaching to my services and have been very encouraged by the results. This allows people to get the benefits of professional life coaching from their home or office.

	*What is Imago Relationship Training?*
	This innovative approach to couples counseling focuses on healing past hurts that still influence your relationship today. It helps you reach beyond the defenses you have built up in the past to build a more rewarding and happier life. It also trains couples to connect with each other in a safe and effective manner. More on Imago Relationship Training Return to top

	What is EMDR?
	EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is an excellent method of targeting problems that stem from past traumas as well as clearing things that are blocking you from peak performance in your life, job and relationships. More about EMDR Therapy
	*Do you offer evening or weekend appointments?*
	Much of the couples counseling I do is scheduled during evening hours. I generally do not schedule appointments on weekends.
	How long does therapy or coaching take?
	The length of time varies dramatically. Some issues can be resolved in a few sessions. Others may take longer. I might be able to answer this question better after our first few conversations.
	Do you prescribe medication?
	Only licensed MDs may prescribe medication. If I feel that medication would significantly increase your ability to function well, I will discuss it with you and, if you want, recommend that you see a psychiatrist for additional evaluation. Return to top
	Where are you located?
	My office is at 18 Cherry Street in downtown Milford, CT Map and directions
	Can I reach you in an emergency?
	A therapist in private practice cannot provide 24-hour service. To reach me during non-office hours, you can call my office number and follow the instructions on the message indicating "urgent" to activate my pager. I will return the call as quickly as possible. In a life-threatening emergency, you should call 911 or go to your nearest hospital emergency room.
	How much does therapy or coaching cost?
	My fee schedule is in line with those of other Ph.D. therapists in the area. We can discuss this in detail when you call.
	*Do you accept credit cards?*
	Yes, I accept Visa and MasterCard. Personal checks also are accepted. Return to top